Hey y’all! I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday! Can you believe it’s already almost 2012?! Where did the year go? Ordinarily, I don’t make New Years resolutions. I mean, what’s the point? Does anyone ever actually keep them? I know I never do. But this year… this year is going to be different I smell a change coming. I won’t go into details simply because I haven’t ironed everything out yet, but yes, things will be different in 2012. I’ve been stuck in a self-imposed rut for a while, and I really feel that now is the time for me to break out of that and do some new things. And what better way to start that than our very own show!!! I can’t tell you how psyched I am for this. I’ll definitely be stepping outside of my comfort zone for this, and I truly can’t wait. 2012 is going to be all about doing things that are way out of character for me. All the things I want to do, all the places I want to go, all the people I want to see… I’m doing it. So that’s my new years resolution this year- to step outside of the box for once. And I can’t wait! I’m curious to hear everyone else’s resolutions. Leave me a comment and let me know what’s on your mind. I hope everyone has a wonderful and safe New Years! See you next week! 🙂
Month: December 2011
On the fourth day of Christmas….
Haven’t seen or heard a “calling bird” all day, let alone four of them. Nor have I seen a partridge, or a turtledove, or a French hen, or geese, or swans of any numbers. There were, however, crows pecking away in the daylily bed this morning, and blue jays eating from the cats’ dishes. But they are there everyday. My sister has shared a concern about the lack of birds at her feeders in her backyard, and we have not had the numbers we usually see at this time of year in our yard either. Maybe the weather has been too mild and there are enough seeds and berries in the fields and woods for them to get by on. I will check out Bill Uhrich’s column in the Reading Eagle in a few weeks about the Christmas Day bird count which takes place all over the country, and is very enthusiastically carried out at Christmas time in Berks County. It’s a indication of the health of our environment.
To help make our little grandchildren more aware of the importance and beauty of birds, I decorate a tree in our sunroom with birds. We hold our own bird count of those birds every Christmas. I’m happy to report that the sunroom environment is flourishing, thanks to a sale of ornaments (including birds) at Esbenshade’s on December 24. Our bird population has increased this year inspite of the fact that a few got knocked down and done in during the undecorating process last year. Won’t say that out bird count ranks up there with other Christmas traditions for our little grandchildren…like getting presents, finding candy, eating pumpkin pie and poppyseed bread, and playing games the day after, but they remember the counts from year to year and are happy to see that our birds proliferate. I keep looking for a partridge to add to the tree. Who knows…in 12 days there could be…hundreds? You can do the math!
Ellen
Is It Wednesday? Already!?
I just started writing a letter to Meg and dated it “Tuesday.” OOPS! Is it really a week since the last time I blogged? It’s been a nice Christmas for Barry and me. My dinner turned out almost exactly as it was supposed to! All dishes I’d never made before, but the recipes in Bon Appetit sounded wonderful, and I always make new things for our Christmas dinner. Sometimes they work, and sometimes they…well, don’t quite work as planned. But this year – wow! I impressed myself, and Barry loved every bite! A mustard coated beef tenderloin roast, shingled potatos (they’re really easy and look great – and very tasty), green beans with cranberries, citrus and parsley salad, cranberry bread, and my cookies for dessert. The beef was amazing, and Bessie’s enjoying bits of the leftover with her regular kibble!
Broke the news of the upcoming television debut of “That’s What SHE Said” to several relatives and acquaintances and received a wide variety of reactions. Most were very positive – I mean really great – a few were more like “Oh, another of Martha’s hairbrained projects” – so I”m choosing to ignore the latter and bask in the excited congratulations from others. I think we’re doing a really great thing! Bravo for us – Ellen! Sheila! Christina, and Jane! I hope I’m never too old to try something new! And Jamie – what a brave and wondeful thing you’ve done to take this idea and really breathe life into it. Thank you! Thank you!
The last of Martha’s Blogs for 2011! A new year is about to overtake our lives. Tto everyone reading this- best wishes for a happy, safe, healthy 2012 – and peace!
Holiday Humbugs
FIrst off and Foremost, I know I Know….I missed again last week. I’m sorry I was on vacation and it totally slipped my mind.Â
Now for whats on my mind today…I’m currently working..yuck … I dont know what is going on tonight. We are so close to the holidays you would think people would be happy and friendly and warm….wrong…they are grumpy , short, and just rude. Now mind you I dispatch road service to broken down vehicles which isnt ever fun for the people calling in to talk to me….no one wants to be broken down. But im dealing mostly with professional truck drivers they are used to breaking down..and I GET that they dont want to be working tonight the morning before christmas eve..but hey im working too!! Believe me I dont want to be here anymore then they do. So lets just at least just try to be friendly and nice to eachother and make it a little easier on all of us spread a little bit of the holiday cheer. I mean where is all the christmasness and garland and gingerbread maybe a present or two and heck lets just cover it all with glitter to make it a little bit better…. Sigh… ok i feel a little bit better now. I would feel even better if it was 930 am so i could get out of here and start my weekend. I have to go and get stocking stuffers after work ..so hopefully I am in a better mood by then so I dont have to get arrested for running someone over in all the christmas madness in the stores. Anyway On that Note I hope you all have a better Christmas Eve Eve then I am having!!
Christina
Happy holidays!
Hey peeps! Here we are again, my favorite day of the week. I find that during the week, I often feel like “hijacking” the blog days of my fellow ladies. You see, sometimes something fun will happen on a Monday and then I’ll have to wait till Thursday to blog about it. So this week I thought I’d try something different. I’ve decided to do daily mini-blogs and then just throw everything together. I’m just going to take my favorite event from each day and discuss. And so, here I go!
On Monday, I got a wonderful surprise visit from my pal Bronson, who came all the way from South Carolina. It was wonderful to catch up with him for a few hours and I’m honored that I was his first stop in Pennsylvania. It truly made my day!
On Tuesday, I got to spend some time with my friend Megan from Washington DC. It was also lovely to catch up with her. I don’t get to see her enough!
On Wednesday, I had lunch with more friends and I got to meet the most perfect little angel baby, Violet. I fell in love instantly. There’s just something about a sleeping baby that melts my heart. I wanted to keep her! 🙂
After lunch, I decided that I deserved some pampering, so I scheduled an impromptu massage and pedicure. It was amazing! I wish I could do it daily!
Also on Wednesday, I had a great night with my girlfriends. Nothing like sitting around a table while eating cookies, drinking, talking…. and knitting! A stitch and bitch, if you will. It was so much fun and I can’t wait to do it again!
Tonight (actually, right this very moment) I’m at Canal Street with my friends Ricky and Patrick. The place is packed and there’s an amazing DJ here. I’m seriously digging the noise!
So there you have it. The highlights of my week. Did anyone notice a pattern? The highlights of my week all revolve around my friends! I love my friends dearly. They may not always know it and I may not always show it, but I’m putting it out there now. My friends flippin rock!
I hope everyone has a fantastic weekend. See you next Thursday! Happy Holidays everyone! 🙂
Finished!
My grades are completed. I’ll deliver them to the registrar’s office this morning. Hooray! Now I can put away my school bookbag until after the holidays. The next semester begins January 23, and although I’m enjoying the freedom of more time to myself, in a month I’ll be eager to return to campus to meet the new groups of students I’ll be teaching. Some I will have taught before, and I will enjoy meeting with them weekly to hear all about their student teaching experiences. Others I will meet for the first time, some in a course I’ve taught for six years, others in a course that will be new for me. I think I’m addicted to teaching. Or maybe it’s just that I very much enjoy being around young adults. They energize me! The ones I teach are planning to become teachers. What profession could be more important? There is NONE, and by the end of the semester I’ll have convinced my students of that – or they may, perhaps, decide they should look for something else to pursue. It’s one time around, so one should spend as much time doing what one enjoys. Teaching is hard work. It’s a never-ending learning experience! It’s NEVER boring! Just sitting here writing this makes my anticipation of meeting new students in one month and two days even greater! Happy Holidays to all!
Gathered ’round our table
Presents bought…most are wrapped.
Cards are sent.
Decorations completed.
House is partially cleaned
Not exactly through the woods yet in these preps because–
now it is time to concentrate on Christmas dinner.
Gathered around our table(s) on Christmas day will be approximately 30 family and extended family. I’m still counting noses. It brings to mind those that will not be here this year:
My aunt who suffered a stroke two weeks ago and is in a rehab center. She has been one of our less talkative guests over the last few years, but our littler grandson always found her a good listener for the tales he had to tell on Christmas.
My brother-in-law, who passed away last spring. Always the consumate entertainer, he had his bag of tricks to show the kids and a way of telling Irish jokes that even if they were not funny, you laughed long and hard.
My cousin’s father-in-law who passed away just this week. He used to chase the little ones around the house. In his later years he was the only one allowed in my little kitchen other than me, simply because he seemed to feel that I needed him there to tell me what to do. He will be remembered for his unusual gifts. He bought by the case and gave by the case…a case of shampoo, or tennis balls, or comemorative plates, or sleep socks, or…name it.
Our guests will range in age from 4 to 90. There will be grandchildren, cousins, nieces, and nephews along with their families, house guests, and boyfriends. And we will tip a glass to the memories of those who have enriched our holidays past.
May your day be merry and bright, and for the sake of the travelers, not too white.
Ellen
Gratitude
The tree is trimmed. The presents are bought, although I do still have to make a few. The streets are alive with light; a warm carnival embrace. And I am happy to be alive. And I am filled with love and gratitude to all my dear friends for the love they show me. My heart swells to bursting with happiness and life.
There truly is something magical about this season. Some special sparkle in the air that makes us a bit more open, a bit more caring. Perhaps it’s the eggnog, the Southern Comfort, the sugar high from one too many tasty Tollhouses or succulent sandtarts. But I don’t think so. I think it’s something in us, some shared knowledge, desire, need, to feel closer to the ones we love, and even to the ones we don’t even know.
Perhaps we carry it from our earliest of days, when there were no explanations, no sciences to take away our fear of the early fading of the light, the killing frost, as we huddled around fires of warmth and protection; of life.
Perhaps we need to feel that fear from time to time to rekindle the fire of our own humanity. And we should be happy that no matter how smart we become, some tiny reptilian part of our over-wise noggins still retains that wonder as we look up at the darkening sky with its multitude of tiny lights and we feel small in the face of it, and also magnified; we feel a need for kinship, for sharing, for redemption.
Or perhaps it is just the eggnog.
Have a Merry Christmas, a Happy Hanukkah, a Blessed Yule. I hope someone holds you in their arms and shares their warmth, if even for a moment.
Love, Jane
Reality tv? Really?
I have a confession. I’m addicted to reality tv. It’s almost midnight, and here I sit, glued to the tv, watching a tiny puppy named Chanel poop on the floor. Isn’t that sick?! I rarely ever watch tv, but the few shows I do watch are evidently real glimpses into people’s lives. It’s sort of creepy if you think about it. The cameras follow these people everywhere. To work, to the bathroom and even in the boudoir. Eww! So why can’t I stop watching? Because I’m nosy! I want to know how the “other half” lives! Not just that, but these shows are funny! Some of the funniest moments happen when these people are just being candid. It makes me wonder what life would be like with cameras following me everywhere. My world is funny. It just is. So many funny things happen around me daily and I often wish I could have somehow documented it. But to have an entire film crew with me all the time? I shudder to think! While it would be great to have all the fun moments captured, they would also capture the bad and embarrassing moments, too. Not cool. So I think I’ll leave it to the “professionals”. And now I shall return to my program, where a 50ish year old British woman is gyrating on the lap of a Chippendale, or as she called him… a Chipmunk. Ha! See you next Thursday! 🙂
So! Here’s the story of our Nativity scene.
During the four Christmasses we spent in Bologna, Italy, we had the pleasure of visiting many churches during Advent to view their Nativity displays. Most scenes were very old, and some were as large as a room with many moving parts, lights, and special effects that had been added through the centuries. (The Naivity in the church of San Petronio has an marble angel carved my Michaelangelo.) The scenes contained many anachronistic pieces – Italian bagpipers from the hills (who still come into the towns to play in the streets over the Christmas season), figures representing characters from the Commedia del’Arte like Harlequin, all sorts of animals not found in Bethlehem…in short, they were a delight to visit each year. My children were very young, and I decided to start collecting pieces for our own Nativity scene. The individual pieces were very inexpensive, and during the four yearrs in Bologna I managed to assemble quite an impressive collection. Each year I set it up on our mantle, and each year I hid the Christ Child until Christmas morning, when he would appear in the manger. Then disaster struck! One Christmas we discovered that we had inadvertently thrown out the well worn box that contained our Nativity scene during a rare but intense binge of cleaning the cellar! I was quite upset, but we decided to begin assembling a Nativity scene all over again. And so, during the past twenty five years our Nativity has grown to something amazing! It fills our mantle and spills onto several levels. Barry made the most wonderful stable, and we have collected all the “traditional” participants – camels, wisemen, shepherd, Mary, Joseph, angels, donkey, etc. BUT we have also added a variety of other pieces, all given lovingly as gifts by friends and family. Among them are a blue hippopotamus from the New York MOMA, a Mexican boatman, several giraffes, Italian bagpipers, a Labarador retriever, American Revolutionary soldiers, and a handcarved English nanny that was mafde by a dear friend who from Wales who believed every baby should have an English nanny. She now stands proudly beside Mary. There is a tiny turtle and several cats, a llama, Clydesdale, and a black sheep carved in China. I have knitted a small bunting for Jesus, who always looks so cold. And He doesn’t appear until Christmas morning. Where does He stay until then? In our liquor cabinet! Also a tradition of many years. The first time I placed him there next to my favorite bottle of Scotch, it was because the liquor cabinet was very close to the fireplace. THen it became a tradition. Now every year my son calls to ask if I’ve put Jesus in the liquor cabinet. That’s an indication to him, I think, that all’s well with the world. I assure you there is no disrespect intended by that little hiding place. On Christmas morning Jesus is lifted into his manger, and from then until the Epiphany on 6 January the wise men get closer and closer to the stable. All is calm. All is well. Blessings abound!